Real life. I stopped helping people. Why will I no longer extend a helping hand, even to my children

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I don't help people anymore. I don't see any point in helping. Now I will tell you why I created such a vision. Maybe someone will not understand me, but this is just my subjective opinion.

 Real life. I stopped helping people. Why won't I extend a helping hand even to my children

Here you apply for children, help them financially, and in return, what gratitude? Not! Only accusations and accusations. You still find you angry, even if you have done everything possible for them, sacrificing your own interests. Nobody appreciates these victims. Therefore, I have concluded that children need less help to be motivated to become independent and wealthy people.

Often my buddies tell me stories of grown-up kids demanding to buy a flat, pay for an expensive vacation, or sponsor a car purchase. If you help them, such help will not be beneficial, it will only harm. Of course, when children are still young and cannot support themselves, they need help. Only some parents provide their children with money until old age. I don't think this is normal.

Helping friends and buddies is also a dubious mission. They themselves ask for advice, ask what to do in one situation or another, and then make you guilty if their expectations are not met.

As I got older, I became wiser in my approach to & ldquo; giving away & rdquo; advice. Now I can only advise if I understand the topic. If I do not have the competence and experience, it is better to remain silent. Why ask a blind man how to paint a portrait? The same goes for tips!

When it comes to friendship, the best way to lose a friend is to give him advice that he hasn't asked for. This is unethical, so expect someone to be offended. In particular, unsolicited advice should not be given to the female gender. Women are very emotional and react sharply to everything.
If you organize everything written in this article, there are five main reasons why I don't help people:

1 . Children should not be helped because it hampers their development. They must be independent people, be able to solve their problems and earn a living.

2. We should not help and advise our friends, because they will be offended or, worse, they will blame you for everything.

3. If you are just helping strangers out of altruism, you will just hurt them. Man needs a fishing rod, not a fish, this should be remembered.

4. Often times people wait for a return service for help, but people are ungrateful, they quickly forget what good we have done for them.

5. Help out of pity is a complete utopia. If someone finds himself in certain circumstances, there is no need to sympathize with him, he made that choice himself. Moreover, some people like to be in the victim's position.

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