Real life. I understood why at 70 I am alone – the children have not communicated with me for 10 years and the grandchildren do not even know me

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I want to tell you how reflection came to me at a later age. Unfortunately, I realized some very unpleasant things, but better late than never.

 Real life. I understood why at 70 I am alone - the children did not communicate I have been with me for 10 years and my grandchildren don't even know me

Hello dear subscribers. I want to tell you about how at a late age the insight into a sad reality came to me. Unfortunately, I realized some very unpleasant things, but better sooner than never.

I understood why I live alone at the age of seventy. The children have not communicated with me for 10 years, and the grandchildren do not even know that I live in the world. Why did this happen?

Because it was only in old age that I realized that I had lived badly and that I did many things that I regret now. You can't turn back time!

I always found my kids unintelligent & ldquo; chickens & rdquo ;. I tried to teach them, lead them to the true path, tell them how to live properly. If things didn't work out for the kids, I highlighted their failures by saying my favorite phrase: “I told you, if you had listened to your mom, everything would have been different”.

Always & ldquo; stuck my nose & rdquo; in the personal life of children and in all their affairs. It seemed to me that they would not solve anything without me. I was able to make a rude remark even in public, in front of guests and relatives.

Gradually my children began to drift away from me, and now we have become a complete stranger. I was not even informed about the birth of my granddaughter, I found out about it from strangers.

I tried to make contact, called, wrote, but it was all right. The children said:

& ldquo; Because we're so stupid, communicate with smarter people. Why do you need us now? & Rdquo;

My further discovery is that children should always be treated as full adults. They need a mother who will always understand, support, bake a delicious cake and serve them tea.

Don't interfere in the children's personal affairs. This is their life, they have the right to decide how they want to follow their life path. Now I am alone. And what is the use of being so smart?

Value your children or you will be left alone in old age.

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