Taken from life. Mother-in-law collects rent from her son. He constantly wants to control us
An elderly woman offered her son and daughter-in-law to live in her apartment for money.
The couple didn't last even a month because the old lady started to get on their nerves. She constantly expressed dissatisfaction with the level of cleanliness, child rearing and diet. She didn't like that the wallpaper was ruined. She ordered an immediate replacement.
Once, the young people decided to sit together in the evening and drink wine. The hostess came in the morning. She unlocked the door and saw empty glasses and a wine bottle. She began to complain, shout and call her relatives drunk.
The possessive mother did not let the spouses live their own lives
The daughter-in-law could not stand such an attitude and reminded her that they rent an apartment for money, so they have the right to do what they want. A brawl broke out. The mother-in-law called her daughter-in-law a vulgar word and threw a mug at her, but thank God she missed. The worst thing about this story would be if the husband sided with his mother and started scolding his wife for her rude behavior in front of her mother, an elderly woman.
Meanwhile, the son did the right thing. Again, he reminded them that they were paying rent and were free to use their living space. So he asked his mother to leave.
The next day she arrived with her sister and her husband. She threatened the police and demanded to leave the premises. She was not going to return the money. The son quietly began to collect things and left with his wife. He added his mother, her sister and husband to the blacklist. He didn't want to talk to them anymore. The woman was still waiting for her son's apology.
It is rare for a son to side with his wife in conflict situations between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law. Usually prefers not to interfere at all. The fact that his wife suffers in such situations is of no concern to him. All because the man is afraid to oppose his enraged mother. He is often financially dependent on her: he takes money, still lives with her, and conforms to her rules.
Many mothers cannot accept the thought that they have lost control over their child, who starts his own family and does not have as much time for her as before. However, it should be remembered that a man has a different love for his wife than his mother, and in this field there can be no rivalry. Unfortunately, there is often a rivalry between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law for the man's attention and favors. This is a pathological situation that devastates everyone involved.
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