Taken from life. We've been married for 35 years. However, one day I realized something had gone wrong
Our relationship was calm, free of arguments and nervous conversations.
Problems started in family life with my spouse, so we decided we had to live separately temporarily and decide what to do next, even though it's been 35 years since we've been living together!
To be honest, I was very surprised by this turn of events, because I did not think that something like this could ever happen. We lived peacefully together, we didn't argue, there were no insults, everyone did what they wanted, no one forbade anyone to do anything, and then bam and that's it. I didn't take the act too seriously at first, I thought it would work itself out and calm down and then we could start all over again.
I had no idea what a temporary separation would lead to
At first we called each other and talked, but over time contact broke off. One time he came to me by train. I went out to meet him on the platform, but my good mood quickly passed when I saw how his face thinned at the sight of me. When we got home, he didn't care about the dinner I cooked for him, he greeted his daughter and took her for a walk. Upon his return, he holed himself up in the room without a word.
His behavior was starting to tire me out, if he didn't want to be with me, he could have said so directly and not ignored me like that. Then I invited him for a serious interview. He told me that he no longer saw our future together because he thought I was only using him by pretending to be in love. My first impulse was to correct him, but over time I realized that he had made the decision to separate a long time ago.
During my daughter's birthday, he announced to everyone that we were divorcing, which confirmed my confidence that there is no help for us anymore. After the divorce, we still lived under the same roof, but as roommates. I noticed that my ex-husband came back to life, took care of himself in the gym, and began to be successful at work.
But for me it's the other way around… Recently I slipped and fell, hitting my face on the floor, suffering a concussion and a huge bruise. And there were problems at work, I was fired due to the bankruptcy of the company. My ex-husband helps me and even supports me financially. But we hardly talk to each other. Now I'm waiting for the bruises to go down and I'm looking for a new job. Since I have more free time now, I sat down and looked at our photos together.
Even in the picture you can see that we became strangers a long time ago, in each picture we are further and further apart.
And then I realized there was no point in renewing the relationship. However, on the other hand, 35 years together… It's a pity, but I don't want to risk being rejected again.
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